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February 27, 2024

Hyper-Empathy Disorder Test

Kristie Plantinga
,
MA
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February 27, 2024
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Feeling the joys and pains of those around you as if they're your own can be an incredible gift, but it can also take an emotional toll. 

If you find yourself deeply impacted by others' experiences and absorbed in their perspectives, it may be a sign that you possess "hyper-empathy." While empathy allows you to connect and nurture meaningful relationships, it can leave you overwhelmed and drained if it becomes all consuming.

Though "hyper-empathy" isn’t a mental health disorder like anxiety or depression, it can still deeply impact your emotional health, relationships, and overall well-being. 

This test provides a compassionate space to reflect on your sensitivity to others' emotions and gauge if your empathy might be expressed to an extreme degree. 

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At Best Therapists, we believe that online mental health quizzes can be an excellent first step towards improving our mental health. Quizzes like this one can educate you and provide opportunities for self-reflection, but note that they are not a substitute for professional assessments and diagnoses.

Before you dive in, note that empathy is not a mental health disorder according to the DSM-5 (the official diagnostic manual for mental health professionals). Empathy is a personality trait, but like all personality traits, it can be expressed in an extreme way that's maladaptive.

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Frequently asked questions

What are common signs of hyper-empathy?

According to Verywell Mind, some of the common signs of hyper-empathy are:

  • Knowing how someone is feeling without them telling you
  • Deeply experiencing someone else’s feelings when they tell you about them, even when they are going through something you have never gone through
  • Understanding the hierarchy and dynamics of a group of people without being informed of them
  • Feeling overwhelmed when people discuss their emotions with you
  • Anxious attachment
  • Being a “yes” person because your own needs feel less important than someone else’s
  • Overwhelm at physical contact with others
Are certain types of people more prone to become hyper-empathetic?

According to Psychology Spot, hyper-empathy is more common in professionals who are in direct contact with people who need help, such as psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and medical or rescue personnel. However, anyone can be a victim of compassion fatigue, especially if they have high emotional attention and emotional repair skills. Hyper-empathy can also be associated with autism, but it can affect people who are not autistic as well.

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Written by
Kristie Plantinga
,
MA

Kristie Plantinga is the founder of Best Therapists. Along with being on the client-side of therapy, Kristie has had the honor of working directly with therapists in her marketing agency for therapists, TherapieSEO. While working alongside therapists, she learned about the inequities in our mental health system that therapists face on a daily basis, and she wanted to do something about it. That’s why Best Therapists is a platform designed to benefit not only therapy-seekers, but therapy providers. Kristie has a Masters degree in Written Communication and a Bachelors degree in Psychology and Music.

Reviewed by
Katelyn McMahon
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Registered Psychotherapist, VT #097.0134200

Katelyn is a therapist-turned-writer with a passion for mental health. She has a Master's degree in Social Work from the University of England and is a Registered Psychotherapist in the state of Vermont. Katelyn has professional experience in aging care, addiction treatment, integrated health care, and private practice settings. She also has lived experience being on the client side of therapy. Currently, Katelyn is a content writer who’s passionate about spreading mental health awareness and helping other therapists and therapy-seekers Do The Work.

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Show sources and research articles
  1. Vicker, B. (2022, June 28). Hyper-empathy in autism. Verywell Mind. https://www.verywellmind.com/hyper-empathy-in-autism-8426957
  2. Psychology Spot. (n.d.). Hyper-empathy syndrome: When empathy becomes a problem. https://psychology-spot.com/hyper-empathy-syndrome/