New Jersey, LCSW #44SC06529700; New York, LMSW #123144-01; Pennsylvania, LCSW #CW026479; Connecticut, LCSW #15802
Erika Kao

License:

LCSW
Female
White
Virtual Only
Specialties
Couples counseling, Addiction, ADHD
Education
Masters of Science in Social Work | Columbia University, 2006
About
Erika is an LCSW who shows up with honesty, warmth, and a genuinely human presence. Her path into this work began on the client side of the therapy room, where the support and gentle challenges she received had a profound impact on her life. That experience inspired her to create a similar environment for others—one that feels grounding, supportive, and deeply connected. She understands that each person enters therapy with their own identity, history, and lived realities. As a white therapist, Erika is aware of the privilege she holds and is committed to ongoing learning, unlearning, and practicing in ways that are anti-racist and socially conscious. Her intention is to meet you without assumptions, to honor you experiences, and to make space for your truth.
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Message to clients
When you’re in session with me, you’ll slow things down so you can actually hear yourself: your feelings, your reactions, and ultimately, your needs. Together, we'll sort through what’s getting in the way and gently reshape the patterns that no longer support you. My style is warm, collaborative, and focused on helping you feel more connected to yourself and the people who matter to you. Our time together should feel like a safe, steady home base: a place we can explore your inner world, make sense of messy relationships, and grow at a pace that feels right for you. Healing isn’t a straight line, but with the right support, it can lead to meaningful and lasting change in how you live, love, and relate.
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Race and ethnicity
White
Cultural and experiential knowledge
White culture
Languages spoken
English
Spiritual knowledge
Non-religious (Agnosticism, Atheism, Secular)
Location
Specialties
Couples counseling, Addiction, ADHD
Additional areas of focus
LBGTQ+ sexuality, Parenting, Transgender people, Bicultural or multicultural experience, Biracial or multiracial experience, Couples counseling, Addiction, ADHD
Therapeutic style
Challenging, Affirming, Intellectual, Inquisitive, Laid back, Empowering, Solutions-oriented
Modalities
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment based, Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Emotionally focused therapy (EFT), Mindfulness based, Psychodynamic, Solutions-focused brief therapy, Strengths-based therapy
Cost
$200
/Individual Session
$250
/Couples Session
/Family Session
Sliding scale
Does not offer sliding scale spots
Insurance accepted
Works with your out of network benefits to get you reimbursed for therapy
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Courtney Taylor, LCSW
A truly gifted couples’ therapist.
Katie Zielaznicki, LCSW
I’ve had the pleasure of witnessing Erika’s exceptional clinical skill and genuine passion for supporting couples the past 2.5 years. She is my go-to referral for clients seeking couples counseling and I’ve heard only positive feedback from those she has worked with. I’ve consistently been impressed by her ability to foster a supportive space that encourages real change and strengthened emotional connection.
Evan Greenberg LCSW
Erika's work as a couples therapist is nothing short of inspiring. With her training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy, she brings an endlessly compassionate, evidence-based approach that helps partners build deeper emotional connection. Her dedication to supporting clients through challenges like ADHD, recovery, and LGBTQIA+ identity reflects both her skill and her heart. Simply put, she is a transformative force for anyone seeking more authenticity and closeness in their relationships.
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