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Meet Shelly Elia-Shaul—Therapist at Best Therapists

Shelly Elia-Shaul, AMFT

California, AMFT #138057

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About Shelly | She/her

Shelly earned her masters degree in marriage and family therapy from the University of Massachusetts Global’s campus in Monterey, California. She completed her training at an equine therapy site while working with kids, teens, adults and families from various backgrounds. Working on an active ranch and integrating horses into therapy requires focus, calmness and assertiveness. The experience taught her the importance of mindfulness and somatic experiences in her clinical work with clients. Before becoming a therapist, Shelly earned a master’s degree in history. Her academic experience involved uncovering lost narratives of marginalized communities through ethnographic research. While doing that research, Shelly was also involved in community work with children and adults. These experiences inform her approach to clinical work. It’s why she makes it a priority to examine the nexus of socio-political factors and psychological influences in a person’s life.

Message to clients

Therapy can create an emotional container and also provide tangible interventions and skills, and I am committed to seeking the balance between the two for my clients. I utilize psychodynamic and attachment theories that help uncover patterns shaped in the early stages of life. I believe that clients can also benefit from behavioral skills that challenge maladaptive patterns. Specifically, I apply skills from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), including emotional regulation, mindfulness, and relationship skills. My experience has taught me that progress is not linear. The same goes for therapy, which is why it can be a frustrating process. As a therapist, I am committed to in-depth work, empowering my clients to walk the rocky ground of progress. I see the therapeutic process as akin to art, moving back and forth from the details to the big picture while navigating the obstacles in between. It requires a stance of curiosity, emotional safety, and consistency, which I always strive to create for my clients. I work from a feminist and social justice framework, which means that I emphasize how systemic factors influence mental health. Along with that, I recognize the intersectionality of identities including gender, race, class, and sexual orientation. I believe that those layers create a unique experience that I recognize and explore with my clients.

Education

Masters of Marriage and Family Therapy | University of Massachusetts Global, 2021

Race and ethnicity

Arab/Middle Eastern, Jewish

Cultural and experiential knowledge

Jewish culture, Arab culture

Languages spoken

English, Hebrew

Spiritual knowledge

Judaism, Buddhism

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Virtual or in person

Virtual and In Person

Specialties

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Second or third generation immigration experience, Highly sensitive people

Additional areas of focus

Anxiety, Body image, Children, Existential questioning, Mindfulness and/or meditation, Self harm, Self esteem/self worth, Racial/cultural identity, Sexual harassment, abuse, and/or assault, Trauma

Therapeutic style

Challenging, Calming, Intellectual, Holistic, Affirming

Modalities

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), Attachment based, Psychodynamic, Trauma-focused, Mindfulness based

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Cost

$150

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Individual Session

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Couples Session

$150

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Family Session

Sliding scale

Offers sliding scale spots

Insurance accepted
Does not work directly with insurance companies
Works with your out of network benefits to get you reimbursed for therapy
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Peer review

Shelly is an admirable balance of both warmth and honesty. She is great at asking insight-building questions, while also being sensitive to where her clients are at any given moment. She is also particularly good at considering how a client's multi-faceted context might be impacting their functioning.

—Kelli Penner, LMFT
Peer review

Shelly is a caring and genuine therapist whose compassion creates an environment for clients to explore their emotions and work towards cultivating a healthy sense of self.

—Ludine Pierre, LPCC
Peer review

Shelly is a warm and kind advocate as a therapist. She cares deeply for her clients and prioritizes learning to ensure the highest standard of care. Shelly is incredibly trustworthy and a gift to her clients.

—Janie Glassmith, LMFT
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